From the time one gets married he tries to improve his wife, but neither of the two improves till death. Instead, if you would have tried to cut vegetables, it would have been done (with success.) So do not try to improve the wife. She may try to improve us [men] but we should not try to reform them. Dada Bhagwan
About This Quote

It is often said that there is no such thing as a perfect wife, but the truth is that if you don’t try to improve your wife, she will never try to improve you. However, the only thing we should try to improve is ourselves. The author of this quote was an ancient Indian king named Bana. He was a very wise and intelligent man and passed on his wisdom to the people of his era. When we learn to take responsibility for ourselves and stop blaming others for our own shortcomings, we will start seeing improvement in our lives and in the lives of those around us.

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